mr. cool sighting

you remember mr. cool.

he's taken it to a new level.

his sister is a bit bothered.

but he sure is having a good time.

but I'm afraid he has bug bites in places rather unpleasant.

baby love.

nine months and I still cannot believe she is our baby.

her little nose. little fingers. and big eyes.

I love to watch this kid think. and laugh. and play.

I love hearing his best idea. his favorite thing. life is so fun for him.

 he loves to make her laugh. and take her pacifiers.

I am so in love, they make my heart swell.

go team.

our last game for the marlins was saturday.

and yes, this really is our team.

tom passed out the awards and gave trent the "coach's favorite".

we are so proud.

but tom said it would be years till we tried baseball again.

go marlins!

this is us.

I'm so glad this is my "us".

I am crazy in love with these three.

God is so good.

food allergies.

I am not a doctor.

by any stretch of the imagination.

I am a mom.

and my son has food allergies.

I have poured my time. tears. and gallons of rice milk.

into making healthy choices for him and our family.

If this does not pertain to you.

have a nice day.

but I have found many other moms in my shoes.

not really knowing what to buy. cook. or eat.

so here is my experience...

when trent was firstborn

he was inconsolable.

screaming. all day. all night.

he had blood in his diarrhea.

and eczema on his skin.

bless his heart, we brought him back to

our pediatricians around 6 weeks.

she told us it was food allergy.

trent could not tolerate milk protein.

lactose intolerance is the sugar in milk not the protein. different.

she gave me a list of other "names" for milk.

whey. lacto-. casein. 

here is a cheat sheet

from this great site

www.kellymom.com

I was not only to take out the obvious milk. butter. cheese. yogurt.

but check all food labels to see if there were any less obvious ones hidden.

and boy are they.

on the back of food packaging there is a list of ingredients.

we spent several hours at the grocery checking labels only to put them

right back on the shelf.

a large number of children allergic to cows milk also cannot tolerate soy.

which was our case.

so we were avoiding milk. and soy. 

most food altogether for that matter.

I was quite discouraged.

I was a breastfeeding mom and was starving.

I could not eat or drink enough.

I ate embarrassing amounts of

chicken. green beans. bananas. grapes. raisins. 

but was quite hungry.

and then it happened.

two weeks after eliminating all dairy and soy.

we had a different baby.

calm. happy. peaceful.

we had a different house.

calm. happy. peaceful.

it totally worked.

the eczema was gone. diarrhea gone. screaming...gone.

There are many great subs out there for the foods you love.

but...

I would highly advise anyone starting this drastic of a change in their diet

to do the first two weeks of just protein. fruit. and veg. and perhaps rice or potatoes.

it will change your tastebuds enough so that you will not miss the originals

and break any bad habits.

yes, lots of grilled chicken atop plain lettuce if we are out.

dried fruits. nuts. peanut butter on fruit.

loads of fruit. loads of veg.

but I have never felt better.

the diet did the trick and now that I had changed all my eating I needed

to expand my recipe box. and add to my list of menus.

so we started experimenting.

We were baking.

We were eating waffles. 

I subbed organic enriched Rice Dream rice milk for milk

and coconut oil for butter.

note: I nursed trent exclusively for the first 18 months and began giving him rice milk 

with my pediatricians blessing.

we bought this dairy free chocolate chunk cookie mix

these dairy free chocolate chips

which I cannot live without.

I got the BabyCakes cookbook

and looked for any labels reading Vegan (and then would check for Soy)

or any labels reading anything about Allergen Free.

My local health food store.

Rollin Oats

has tons.

anything I crave. they have.

like Luna and Larry's Organic Coconut Bliss Ice cream and Popsicles. 

oh my.

or Lara Bars

as you can see we have quite the sweet tooth so each day we fill up on oatmeal. rice. hummus. peanut butter. fruit. veg. chicken and fish. 

and then treat ourselves to some kind of dairy free delectable at night.

The only things I struggle with...

going on vacation. we bring a cooler.

unless we are going to Disney 

which in fact is the best place to be if you have food allergies.

a chef comes to your table and talks to you about what wonderful things he can make.

and there are Divvies Allergy Free snacks throughout the park.

parties. we bring our own food.

and food on the go....

well. I have found some good snacks to keep on hand 

because I cant and won't just run through a drive through or something like that.

dried fruit. bananas. apples. small packs of applesauce. boxes of raisins. Lara bars.

We have found the restaurants that are most accommodating and frequent them.

as for now. we are all doing wonderful. our pediatrician asked me (since I am breastfeeding) 

to eliminate dairy and soy again a few weeks prior to Lila's arrival last summer. 

and keep it out of my diet for her first year 

since there is a family history of food allergies.

as I write this I am munching on Newmans Own raisins. they are a still a fave treat.

we are still dairy free.

well at least three of us are...

tom occasionally indulges in chocolate frozen yogurt with reeses peanut butter chunks.

but I make him eat it in the closet.

love and dirt.

this weekend we started our backyard garden.

so my hunky hubs built me a cedar frame.

we filled it with small rocks.

and then organic dirt mix.

we planted tomatoes. watermelon. and cucumber.

basil. rosemary. mint. thyme. sage. parsley. cilantro. 

the whole family is digging it.

fingers crossed maddie doesn't get into it.

despite her smile. she cannot be trusted.

sweet reality.

I can't believe I am a mom.

I've wanted this for as long as I can ever remember.

and it's here. 

 

I kiss her face.

and let her kiss me back.

drooling all over me.

and I can't believe she is real.

and him. he's here. and real.

he brings me such joy.

the things he says. and does.

he's so silly but lets me hold him.

and tell him stories.

and answer his questions.

and softly sing him songs.

I pinch myself. I cant believe it. 

but it's clear I am their mom.

when I look at his eyes. his hair.

and feel her need to be near.

to look in my rearview and see him dancing

in his carseat the same way I do.

his hands in the air.

these are my kids.

I am their mom.

what a sweet sweet reality.

Happy Mothers Day.

God is so good.